How to Be a Multi-Orgasmic Woman
Sexual Secrets of Tantra
Still, an orgasm is as impossible to identify as the phenomenon of “love”, for these are “emotions” that are felt and experienced from the heart and not from the mind. While MRI evaluations, surveys and studies about the nervous system and neural pathways can somewhat satisfy the scientists, they cannot make it any easier for a woman to reach orgasm.
Knowing about it is not the same as knowing how to achieve it.
The orgasmic woman, or multi-orgasmic woman, is the embodiment of nature. Her body is a microcosm of the Universe, and she knows it very well.
How Tantra Identifies Orgasm:
In tantra, the body is the laboratory. During orgasm, the body is no longer matter, it becomes a vibrating energy, but this takes practice and time to master. When this energy penetrates your body, mind and soul, you become a part of the Cosmos. You become connected to all of nature. This energy is expansive and involves the entire being.
In ordinary sex, the orgasm is quick and localized in the genitals, like a knee jerk response. It is meaningless and offers few health benefits, if any.
Why Women Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm:
On a subconscious or primitive level it may be that women are more selective of their mates so until they find Mr. Right it’s hard to really relax and “let go”.
You might find a man who has “casual” sex with someone he barely knows, but since there is a connection between a woman's genitals and her heart, this could lead to her getting hurt, or even a “fatal attraction” syndrome. In tantra, we say it’s very important who you have orgasm (sex) with, because you might unwittingly bond with the wrong person!
Many women who have already found Mr. Right still have a problem achieving orgasms, due to fear and guilt. Because of this guilt, sexual expression is suppressed –and women deny themselves the pleasure they are entitled to.
How Women Reach Orgasm:
Women who find it difficult to orgasm must first learn to “relax”. One of the sexual secrets of tantra is meditation. There simply is no other way. Meditation can alter brain chemistry. Doing sensual exercises will develop sensuality and teach women how they can learn to connect through their senses. The orgasmic woman is able to “feel” and be “in touch” with her body. This can be learned. When you have a “sensitive” body it’s easy to get “turned on”.
- meditate (because that how you control your orgasm, ejaculation etc)
- develop sensuality (because that is how you learn to “feel”)
- find a suitable partner who you really trust (so that you are able to "let go")
- let the ego go (do away with worldly illusions of who you think you are)
- be present (live in the moment)
- be authentic, real and honest in the way you express your sexuality (no phony "sexiness")
- develop your internal muscularity through tantra yoga exercises
Why Women Should Have Orgasms:
A woman’s erotic response is genetically more complex than a man’s. During orgasm, oxytocin is released by the pituitary gland, the same gland which simulates the release of mother’s milk and bonds the child to the mother. Oxytocin is also the hormone responsible for enhancing the bonding between man and woman, the same sort of bonding that occurs between mother and her child.
Consistently high oxytocin levels bring about health benefits, youthfulness and positive changes in outlook. Orgasms also bond you to your partner; so be careful with whom you have an orgasm!
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